There is no correct way of defining what a soul mate is; however, it can roughly be said that a soul mate is someone with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve compatibility, love, affection, care, spirituality and many other factors.
All of this still can’t define what a soul mate is. So let me break it down for you. Before that, let me just say that your soulmate doesn’t necessarily need to be your lover. It could be a friend too. The role of a soul mate is to make you feel complete and it doesn’t come along with any particular relationship tag.
To best explain it, a soul mate is someone in front of who you are unapologetically you. Someone who sees your demons and instead of abandoning you because of them, they are going to silence them. They are your human home. Your secret escape!
HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU’VE FOUND YOUR SOUL MATE?
When you find your other half, you are going to be at a different level of peace. The positivity in your aura will multiply and every pain you’ve ever felt will seem unimportant.
They will have an unexplained way of calming you down even when the world is falling apart. It is also said that “According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves.” This is how much capacity two soul mates hold, that are meant to be together.
If you have found your soul mate, you have found more than just love. You have found yourself a partner who is going to stick through thick and thin, even if you don’t ask them to. There is no “breaking up” with your soul mate. Situations might get tough and you both might walk out to explore in the world, but you both will return home because one is never going to feel complete without the other.
The thought of losing them will send chills down your spine. They will become more than just a person in your life. They shall be a lifestyle you live. This does not mean that you will lose your identity or individual presence, but you can be sure that people are going to see hints of your soul mate in you.
With them, forever just won’t be a word. They’ll bring it to life and you’re going to start living forever in moments.
The intensity of their love is going to be so deep that you’re going to feel it even if you’re miles apart.
There is no hiding from your soul mate because they are going to find you and show you why it didn’t work out with anyone before them and why there is going to be nobody after them. They are going to help you be the best version of yourself. Both of you will uplift each other in life without even realizing.
You’re going to live the love they write about in books. Just having them by your side and holding their hand will give you the feeling of having a whole army with you. The only con of having a soul mate is that, if you ever lose them due to unavoidable circumstance, a part of you will die inside. I’m sorry but it had to be said.
Yes, all of this is true. And it’s ok if you couldn’t think of anyone when you read this. All of us are at different levels of life. You will find your soul mate when your time comes and you don’t have to search for them. They will find their way home and so will you. So sit back and relax!