“A true soulmate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.” — Elizabeth Gilbert
You will find a soulmate or a spiritual partner when you least expect it. Soulmates are people who mirror you, make you aware of your repetitive patterns and push you forward on your path.
Being aware of the different types of soulmates that you may encounter in life and the relationship with them can help you use these opportunities and develop deeper relationships.
Read onto learn about the four types of soulmates that everybody meets in their lives:
These are friends that come in your life with the intention of giving you life lessons that remove the barriers from your past by reflecting on them.
Healing soulmate appears in a divine moment – exactly when we need the most to learn what they teach us.
These friends help us learn how to move forward in our lives. The friendship with a healing soulmate exists just as long as both your goals are aligned.
How do you recognize it?
This type of friend usually appears when you are dealing with repetitive patterns and are trying to get rid of your old problems.
How to cultivate the friendship?
Know in advance that this friendship may not last. Like all relations, it works only if you both respect the need for space and maintain an understanding of each other.
A strong bond may occur between relatives or could be a romantic relationship. Such a friendship can have a lot of ups and downs but if you can take the good along with the bad, this type of relationship will be very fertile.
2.Soulmates from your past lives
Because these people may have been lovers or related soulmates in their past lives, the relationships are light and comfortable. The connection you establish with these people happens very fast.
You may feel that you will be friends forever – no matter how much time passes and how far you are geographically distant – and you’re probably right.
Such a friendship may just last a lifetime because you will never want to hide or run away from friends like these.
These relations can be carefree, but they do shape us. A past life relationship teaches us confidence and faith in ourselves. In this kind of dynamics, both people feel comfortable and can tell everything to each other. They accept each other for who they are.
These friends come into your life to help you develop into a person you need to be and have that special gift to push you towards your destiny without any pain or suffering.
We often try to turn these relations into romantic relationships, but it’s usually impossible. There is a lack of physical attractiveness or a desire to persevere and preserve this relationship as a friendship.
How will you recognize it?
You will know this person when you are truly who you are. Soulmates from past lives appear when you are in your element and nothing blocks you.
They always have your best interest in mind and nothing will stop them when you ask them to help you realize your dreams. This kind of friendship will last a lifetime.
How to nurture this relationship?
Keep in touch. Send them an e-mail or give them a phone call just to tell them that you’re thinking about them. These people come in and out of your life when you need to focus, and they always bring love and fun with themselves.
They help you get back to your inner desires and connect with your capabilities. They are the key to your shaping into the best person you can be.
These people are also related to you through a certain past life. These relations are deep and karmic, and often painful because they include ego struggles. You have to endure the pain that comes because of the ego because that is that point of this type of relationship.
Working on the relationship and learning how to overcome suffering is often the only solution.
How do you recognize them?
Karmic soulmates have a connection similar to twin flames. In times of strong emotions, you feel what they feel.
Often times, these friends have reincarnated and experienced some karma in order to break the negative circle.
How to nurture this relationship?
Be aware of the energy you transmit and do everything you can to remove your ego. If you focus on the positive aspects of the relationship, you will attract the positivity of this person. Remove your ego by focusing on what is best for both of you.
Do whatever you can to give unconditional love and understanding to your partner. Unconditional goodness will make your partner feel relaxed.
Twin flames work together to overcome emotional and spiritual barriers. They can talk for hours without losing a topic for conversation. Thinking alike, completing each other’s sentences, and naturally doing things as a couple. This relationship overcomes the ego.
When you get to know your Twin Flame, you have a feeling of completeness in that relationship. Not everyone meets their Twin flames as lovers, but those who meet them will enjoy this relationship until the end of their lives.
How to recognize them?
You have the feeling that you’ve known this person through many lives and rarely want to be separated. Very quickly, Twin Flames begin making common decisions about everything.
How to foster this relationship?
The most important aspect of this relationship is sincerity, and the relating to a Twin Flame is natural and easy. Probably you communicate easily without even saying a word. When both are completely their own, Twin flames can overpower everything.
Each of these relationships can potentially end with broken hearts, but each has the opportunity to resolve and change the karma of your relationship. Every relationship from which you learn and that ends so that you move forward in love can be considered a successful one. It doesn’t have to last forever in order to serve its purpose.