“Mysteries of attraction could not always be explained through logic. Sometimes the fractures in two separate souls became the very hinges that held them together.” ― Lisa Kleypas
Have you ever wondered what men really noticed first when they meet a woman for the first time? You are not the only one – almost every woman has asked herself this question sooner or later, especially when a new, interested guy approaches her.
Most people believe that physical appearance is the key to attracting a potential partner. This is not true. Such a false notion was imposed by television, movies, magazines that promote extremely beautiful women that you rarely see on the street or in a supermarket. This is imposed upon us by a standard that has nothing to do with real life.
There are several things that men instantly notice in a woman. Ladies, find out what attracts the male gender the most and use it in your future conquests.
Science reveals that men are judging female attractiveness based on 8 things, and the length of your legs or the color of your hair has nothing to do with it.
1.The Waist and Hips
A 1993 study published in The Journal Personality and Social Psychology found that a large percentage of men report high attraction to women who have a low waist-to-hip ratio.
Men instinctively seek the potential mothers of their children. If your waist is noticeably sticking out of your hips, it’s a fertility symbol and a great bonus for you. The wider belt will emphasize the sandy clock figure.
Sure, it is a theory from the prehistoric age, but it remains true even today.
Men look for women who have a symmetrical body and in particular, a symmetrical face. Symmetry is a sign of good genes and physical beauty so when a woman has good symmetry, she is often considered to be more beautiful, and healthy, thus more approachable to guys.
The men’s search for symmetry in a woman is a subconscious mechanism, but science has found this to be true. Another theory proposes that symmetry indicates good health, as well.
3.Long thick hair
This is a matter of evolution. From the beginning of mankind, men were attracted to women with dense, shiny hair, which is one of the most visible signs of health. Regardless of their hair color, men find women with long hair more attractive than women with shorter hair.
A 2004 survey published in the journal Human Nature found that male participants rate longer hair as more attractive.
If you do not have thick hair, then make sure it looks healthier and shiny. Keep the ends healthy, put a splash of shine and let your hair always be neat.
4.Red does the trick
Many women in different cultures around the world have painted their lips red for a long time and as it turns out, for a very good reason. According to a studypublished in Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, all humans have found to be more attracted to the color red.
Red has always been the color that symbolizes love and is associated with all kinds of things related to making love, including the genitalia.
5.A woman’s smell
Apparently, men react to the way women smell, and not in a bad way. Everyone’s body omits a different smell, and some people smell good while others smell bad.
Scientists have found that a woman’s cycle influences the pheromones her body emits. Men are attracted to women whom they believe smell good. But everyone has different taste so don’t worry too much about this one.
As much as you think the décolleté is the focus of men’s attention, this is not true (well, not always). People generally, men and women alike, focus more on the eyes than on another part of the body. So make sure to point out that part of your face with a well-dressed makeup, but do not overdo it, because you will only hide your natural beauty and therefore repel the guys around you.
Men like a woman who has big, bright eyes as it signifies her health and youth. The color of the eyes doesn’t really matter, but it is their overall brightness that’s important.
It’s not all about how a woman looks. According to Smithsonian Magazine, men are more into women with a higher tone of voice.
Researchers at the University of Pennsylvania have found that men are more attracted to women who have a slightly higher voice. They believe that a higher tone of the female voice evolved so that the woman could sound young and attractive to potential partners. Therefore, even when women subconsciously want to attract the attention of men, raise the tone of their voice, in the form of laughter, which really works.
The color of a woman’s lips is important, but this is not the only thing that attracts men. A Manchester University study found that men spend half of any interaction with their eyes focused on a woman’s lips. Participants in the study find fuller lips to be more physically attractive.